You arranged for a professional photographer to take photos of you.
You used a top Professional Internet Dating Profile Writer to craft your online profile.
You took action searching on and approaching the singles who attracted you and appealed to you.
But then something strange happened: Mr. Too Perfect approached you and sent you a message.
The man seemed a little too perfect. He’s had his heart broken by his ex-wife who was unfaithful to him. Or he’s widowed and his wife died tragically. He’s a single dad now and really wants to hurry up and marry again and find a mother for his child.
He has only 2 photographs up in his profile and in them he looks utterly perfect. Frankly, part of you is thinking just maybe this guy is a model. He talks about his family wealth and inheritance. He writes you pages of poems in email. He tells you he loves you. Only he hasn’t ever met you live. He seems very successful and romantic, but it just doesn’t feel like he’s for real. He emails for weeks upon weeks with you and yet just sort of can’t ever manage to meet you face to face live in person and interactive offline in the real world.
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She’s beautiful. She’s so good looking and hot that she could be a model. She’s younger than you are. Her English seems right, but you start to notice her language structure and phrases just aren’t quite the way that people here in The States (and Canada) actually speak. She tells you how handsome and successful you are. She appreciates you as a man. She keeps saying how much she wants to get married and have children with you. She puts off meeting you. And then she tells you she got sick, her child from a former boyfriend got sick, her aunt got sick, or her mother got sick. And they need an expensive operation. She needs money from you. She wants money from you. She asks you for money to help her. Or she wants you to redirect to go look at her website. She invites you to webcam with her. When you ask her for a date, she gives you a 900 number to phone her.
Single guys can feel used and mislead. Single women feel like these guys were just a huge waste of time and energy. The sad truth and dirty little secret of online dating is that yes, there are some scam artists out there. Professional cons of one kind or another. In internet dating workshops when the singles relate these sort of stories to me, their questions is, “Why are they doing it?” Rather than wasting any more time and energy on those people, instead practice solid dating practices and internet dating safety behaviors. When you do this regularly and habitually, you will automatically filter those fakes out of your dating pipeline.